Personal Plug

Today I will chat about a few different forms of cheating on your partner. It can be sole destroying if you find out that your partner has been cheating on you.

Acts such as kissing and sexual intercourse are blatant forms of cheating but there are other kinds as well. The rise of the Internet has given birth to many different forms of what many people would consider cheating.

Cyber sex is the most common form of cheating when it comes to the Internet. This is when you talk dirty in a chat room or via live messenger with another person. I am not going to get explicit because you can imagine the kind of things that are said.

So is this cheating? There are arguments on both sides; one side you aren’t touching anyone but then again you shouldn’t be speaking about intimate issues with anyone other than your partner.

Cyber sex in my opinion is cheating and if you love your partner there’s absolutely no reason to do it. Another controversial subject with regards to cheating is flirting. Some people say that flirting is fine if you’re doing it for fun but other say that it can never be done for fun and that the only reason people flirt is because they want things to go further.

I think that flirting is part of some people’s personality so it’s fine as long as there isn’t an ulterior motive to the flirting e.g. wanting to cheat. Flirting can only be regarded as cheating if it’s being done with the intentions of wanting things to go further than mere flirting.

Another occurrence that a lot of people believe is cheating is when one half of a relationship spends a lot of time with a work colleague of the opposite sex outside of work This is an easy way to drive jealousy into a relationship but it isn’t really cheating unless you don’t want your partner to speak to anyone other than yourself.

If you cheated on your partner and they left you then you only have yourself to blame. It is possible to get your ex back even if you’ve cheated on them but it takes a lot of time and convincing that you truly have learned your lesson.