Personal Plug

OK. You have joined two dating services and written a killer profile. You have uploaded a good picture and now you’re going to chat with a contact. What now? How does one start separating those who have real potential and people who don’t have any potential at all? You want to find out something about who this strange woman really is and not just who she wants you to believe she is. It might be nice if ladies wore labels like “Gold Digger” or “Daddy’s girl”….but they don’t so it’s down to you to find these things out and you cannot just ask direct questions. You have to know what mistakes you can avoid making and how to affect this woman if you decide you would like to do that.

After you are past the first little talk, ask her, “What are the most terrible mistakes guys make when dating online?” Listen carefully to her answers. She is going to tell you a lot about herself and her views on men in general.

Next you must ask her, “What do you think about online dating?” Now she is going to tell you if she has had any bad experiences dating o line and help you to avoid making the same stuff wrong.

Then try to determine her risk tolerance level. This is especially true if {you’re|you are] an entrepreneur or operate a home-based business as varying risk tolerances can mean disaster for your relationship.

Now for the vital one…..”What caused the break up in your last relationship?” If she puts all the blame on the fellow, you need to likely move on to the next prospect. If she takes all the blame herself, you must likely do the same. If she is saying the breakup was by mutual consent or the relationship just wasn’t right for either of them, you have heard the proper answer. Move forward but always with caution.

Asking the proper questions will give you discernment and make you more confident when you meet the woman for the 1st time.